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5 Ways to Love Your Husband

My mission for this blog is share recipes and encouragement and to inspire you to serve your husband with love. Here are 5 ways I show my husband love.

Give him reverence. This is one of the most important things you can do to love your husband. Showing him respect, and being in obedience to him is not only a command of God but vital for your marriage to be happy & successful. Not at all popular but very necessary.

Welcome Home Honey! Welcome him home to a reasonably tidy home with joy & excited kids when he gets home from work. When my husband gets home we always run to the door and shower him with hugs and kisses. Caleb is usually squealing in excitement to see his Daddy. Your husband does not want to come home to a grumpy wife & kids and the house is a wreck. Make your warm welcome and home such that your husband can’t wait to come home.

Get the man a drink. My husband loves his iced tea. When he gets home from work, not only are we very excited to see him but he also has a glass of fresh brewed ice tea waiting for him. And ask if he needs a refill! Very easy way to serve your husband, just by showing some hospitality.

Give him some lovin’. Give your husband physical attention. Welcome his advances and do not tell him no. This attention is very important to men. And you need it too whether you realize it or not.

Learn to keep your mouth shut. Do not be a nag. This should really go without saying. Sometimes it’s best to just keep quiet. Or learn how to talk without nagging. At times I have been around a couple who’s wife is a total nag. It is *really* annoying and embarrassing to your husband and to others. I always tell myself I never want to be like that when it happens and really strive not to.

Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband. Ephesians 5:33
 
She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.  Proverbs 31:12
 
Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.  Proverbs 5:19
Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 1 Corinthians 7:3 & 4
 
While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands. 
1 Peter 2:2-5
Hope these tips will be an encouragement you. If you don’t already do these things on a regular basis, give it a try and watch for some positive changes in your marriage. What special things do you like to do for your husband?

2 thoughts on “5 Ways to Love Your Husband

  1. Great words of encouragement! I agree that a tidy home, a warm welcome, and a pleasant atmosphere are appreciated by our husbands when they get home from work. I also like to give my husband some time to himself, to unwind, and switch gears before dinner.

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